In today's world, many young people are unknowingly trapped in a cycle where physical attraction becomes overpowering, almost like an obsession. This fixation can make men view women as if they hold some supernatural power over their minds. It's no surprise that this influences how both men and women see themselves and interact with each other.
However, celibacy offers a way to step back and reevaluate these perceptions. When a man chooses celibacy, he begins to see beyond the physical form of a woman. What once seemed magical or irresistible starts to appear as it truly is; a biological structure designed by nature. For example:
- Rounded features are simply the body’s way of preparing for pregnancy.
- Breasts are natural glands meant to feed infants.
- Even other physical features lose their allure as the man realizes they are just parts of a functioning human body.
This shift in perspective helps a man understand that the intense attraction he felt in the past was more a result of his own mindset than the actual physique of the female form. It becomes clear that this obsession was driven by living in a lower state of awareness, where physical desires take control.
But the change goes beyond personal understanding. It also helps men notice the impact of their behaviors on society. When men put women on a pedestal, solely because of their appearance, it reinforces the idea that men are easily controlled by their desires. Over time, this dynamic can lead women to lose respect for men, creating a disconnection that leaves both sides dissatisfied.
Celibacy encourages men to focus on their higher selves, moving away from this cycle of obsession. By doing so, they not only free themselves from unhealthy attractions but also start respecting women for their true worth, beyond physical appearance. This shift benefits everyone, fostering healthier relationships and a more balanced society.
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Source: A book named "Bliss of the Celibate" in the chapter, "What makes Saints of Men?" around page 92~96. Modified using ChatGPT
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