Real Pornography vs Real Sex Education

Trigger Warning: The written content below contains such words and phrases which might sexually provoke its readers. If you are easily influenced by the words regarding sexuality and cannot easily control your sexual urge, I recommend you to take adequate mental preparations before actually attempting to read it.

In today's generation, majority of the Youth society is heavily degenerated by the irresistible toxicity of Porn. Due to the over-saturated presence of those sex-oriented Garbage around the internet. Most of the youngsters, having no experience in Sexual activity, considers Porn as a platform to learn Sex-Education.
Such perspective is potentially very dangerous for the sex-life of any normal human being. Not only his sex-life but also the sexual health of his partner is endangered in such scenario. 

The reality is, this PORN-addiction is far more addictive than any other drug-addiction. So addictive that the addiction persists for longer duration (inside the brain) than the porn content itself. In fact, Porn contents are consumed by far more people than drug consumers and by far more younger people than from other ages.

Think about it; when a man confesses in front of public that he was addicted to cigarettes, alcoholic substance or any other drug for 20 years straight and he finally managed to quit it, the majority will praise him as an appreciation.

But, in another scenario, if another man confesses in front of public that he was addicted to diverse pornographic contents for 20 years straight and he finally (somehow) managed to quit it, sadly, many would feel awkward and avoid praising him. Rather, some people might even ridicule him at such a great improvement. Ultimately, the Porn is called our generations' modern drug by many social media influencers.

According to our current situation, Porn is secured in such a place where it remains a taboo-topic in front of the public society. Yeah, no one talks (or cannot talk?) about it frankly in public. But still, majority of youths are eager to consume such dangerous sex perverted imagery for the sake of the irresistible curiosity on learning so-called Sex Education. Although the education regarding sex is totally different from whatever is portrayed on the pixelated display of deep-faked sexual activities.

Porn always remains free across the internet and is also widely promoted in a disguise of pop-up advertisements inside some particular websites e.g. free/cracked video games provider, unofficial movie-series player, anime contents etcetera related sites.
Due to this reason, a formerly porn addicted person still have to have a strong self-control and ensure not to fall into any of these countless secret traps that are installed across different websites on the internet. This internet environment is filled with clickbait contents which, within a split second, could reactivate the impulses of old/former porn-consumption habits. The rule is, never let your corrupted decision to allow the Porn to control YOU.

Sometimes, the porn-addiction gets so predominant in someone's life that it literally becomes an unavoidable self-identity. The people who are victimized and brainwashed by porn just can't kick their addiction out of life.
The reason is, these pornographic visuals are installed in their brains by such a high level that it turns out to be a normalized regular imagery. That is why, as I said before, the addiction persists for longer duration than the porn content itself. 

Only a single example is enough for clearing the concept of this fact. Chris Tyson, a friend of MrBeast or Jimmy Donaldson, has recently transgendered himself due to having the desire of transforming between two genders whenever he wanted. He named his new transgender name as 'Ava Tyson'.

Chris Tyson sent this message in one of his chats. An evidence found from a video of Project Nightfall

So you can easily interpret by this example, how much potential Porn have right now which is strong enough to even transform your gender, your sex-identity.

Whenever any young woman; I mean girl, as young as 13-15 becomes popular on the internet due to satisfying their innocent enthusiasms on creating some public contents, they mostly end up being sexualized/hyper-sexualized by some porn-addicted creeps crawling across the internet. It can be referred as Pedophilia.

By the time of being 18+ years old, they would initially be invited (from the comments and messages from those same creeps) to create some explicit graphical contents from their own and publish it to Only-Fans or any other relevant explicit website. 

But, their erotic contents are not only limited within such adult sites but also extended to socially public platforms like YouTube, Facebook, Reddit and TikTok. Most of them are published via reels or shorts type contents, thus tempting the sex-desires of heterosexual male viewers.

This happen due to objectifying those women whose appearances seem younger than they actually are in regards of age. Yeah, it is pretty normal because of the saturation of sex hormones inside their bodies. They are naturally & primely vulnerable at an innocent level in case of sexual matters.
Sadly, such charismatic beauty is heavily disrespected by the means of objectification and sexualization. As a result of getting irresistible sexual harassments and even being raped, some of them permanently lose this special quality just within their youthfulness.

Now, let's come to the point of Animated Pornography.
This is a story of an innocent girl child: 
When Angelina first watched the Disney movie Frozen, she promptly became obsessed. For the next several months, little Angelina could constantly be found toddling about the house, singing “Let it gooo!” at the top of her lungs.

Brave and beautiful Elsa became Angelina’s idol. On Halloween, Angelina donned an Elsa costume. When she turned 6 years old, she had an Elsa-themed birthday party. At school, she invariably spent her recesses playing “Elsa and Anna” with her best friend Carlie. (Angelina was always Elsa. Carlie was Anna.)

One day, Angelina was on her mother’s iPad. She was allowed to use the device to entertain herself while her parents were busy cooking dinner or working.
With her tiny thumbs, Angelina typed “Elsa” into the search bar.

This is the desktop representation
of what Angelina actually saw

For the next twenty minutes or so, she swiped happily through the videos and songs, and images of her well-beloved Frost Queen.

Then, Angelina arrived at a video titled “Frozen Elsa and Anna Hardcore BDSM.”

She clicked on it…(All of us know that what would happen to her mindset after watching those.)

© Story source: FightTheNewDrug

Animated pornography contents (e.g. Hentai, cartoon porn, 3D porn etc.) are way too dangerous than those which are done through acting in front of cameras. 

Because, first of all we don’t presume them to be negative enough to corrupt our mental condition. 

Secondly, artificial characters can be seen more often to do such sex-moves that are too brutal to be done in real life. Sometimes, it may also cross the limit of physics and reality with possible imaginations, no matter how many times those camera-acted porn videos are edited unrealistically, they at least can never cross the limitations of physics. 

Third thing, these pornographic animations can easily alter several neural-pathways and their fundamental interconnections. As a consequence, some significant cognitive skills like critical-thinking, problem-solving, calculations etc. of an addicted person become heavily damaged. Therefore, it is better not to indulge in watching such porn. 

Regarding relationship, a porn-addict might think that he had learned diverse sexual behaviors which could help his sex-partner to enjoy the ultimate degree of sexual ecstasy, stimulation, pleasure, and orgasm.
But in reality, those distorted forms of sex-behaviors will only annoy the partner thus, lose the sexual interest on that porn-addict person. Because, there is a firm reason behind why most adult porn-stars don't even enjoy what they are filming. They only do it for the sake of earning huge money.
It is all about mere performance of faked and fabricated sexual activities. Whereas, a genuine sexual connection based on love and emotional bonding never requires better sex-performance.

Porn is generally an abnormal thing which never teaches any of the things what is taught by the ideal sex-education. Consequentially speaking, when abnormal thing become normal in a society, the general public is ought to lose their senses of direction.

Long-term exposure to Pornographic materials can cause serious mental toxicities which could remain persistent for the rest of life. Furthermore, long-term visualization of Porn can also cause blind spot, not knowing or being unaware about how severe the intensity of addiction has been developed from consuming innumerable explicit contents.
Since the person who somehow quitted Porn addiction still remains a victim of PTSD (which is a mental issue), it can literally be called a door of no return. Yes, there will be moments when you will miss watching and consuming porn contents after quitting them out of your life but, the duration of such memory impulse is undoubtedly very low.
This momentary feeling is totally NOTHING comparing to the feeling of finally overcoming the looped matrix of Porn that was, once, controlling your life.
The happiness of breaking the chains of Pornographic consumption-slavery is an unmatched glorious feeling which is worthy enough to be remembered as a memorable day.
If he person is dedicated enough then it is never late to break these invisible chains and take the full control over his life. The rewards of escaping this super intoxicated matrix are endless, keeping you grateful to Allah for the rest of your healthy life. 

Speaking form the perspective of Testosterone, majority of youngsters are just merely wasting their masculine potential energy in Porn and Masturbation. Whereas, they can possibly use such energy in doing several beneficial things for the sake of ensuring their personal as well as social improvements.
Basically speaking, Testosterone is the ultimate fuel for masculinity in regards of attaining success in any field/aspect in life.
And, Semen is a life-force which can either be harnessed in acquiring amazing traits & talents or be used in producing healthy offspring, obviously by the union with a woman. 

Porn can severely damage your self esteem. When you're really deep into this addiction, there is an underlying sense of Self-disgust each time you finish a session of binge-watching porn contents.
You sit alone in the room,
only with yourself,
thinking (as a doubt) that you are the only loneliest person in the world.
This emptiness may last for a few Months, even after quitting porn, as a form of PTSD.

The following points are given to identify 5 major effects of Porn Addiction collected from studies by various organizations:

1. You become desensitized and your sexual tastes escalate:
   Over time, regular pornography use can lead to desensitization. Individuals may require increasingly explicit or extreme content to achieve the same level of arousal.
   This can create unrealistic expectations about sex, potentially leading to dissatisfaction in real-life relationships and a heightened tolerance for harmful/degrading sexual behaviors.
   
   
2. Less intimacy and connection: 
   Pornography often portrays sex as a purely physical act devoid of emotional connection.
   This can hinder the development of genuine intimacy and emotional bonds in real-life relationships.
   It can also lead to difficulties in communication and emotional vulnerability, as individuals may struggle to connect on a deeper level.
   
   
3. Distorted perceptions of sex and relationships:
   Pornography frequently presents unrealistic and stereotypical portrayals of sex and gender roles.
   This can create distorted perceptions of what constitutes healthy and consensual sexual behavior.
   It can also promote objectification of partners and reinforce harmful gender roles, leading to difficulties in navigating true real-life relationships.
   
   
4. Addiction and Compulsive use:
   Some individuals may develop an addiction to pornography, characterized by excessive use which interferes with daily life and responsibilities.
   This can lead to neglect of work, school, or social obligations, as well as strained relationships and emotional distress.
    
5. Negative effect on Mental health:
   Consuming pornography that depicts violence, degradation, or non-consensual acts can have a negative impact on mental health.
   It can lead to feelings of shame, guilt, anxiety, and depression.
   Exposure to harmful pornographic content can desensitize individuals to violence and normalize most unhealthy sexual behaviors.

Regardless of these points collected and gathered from conducting various formal studies, the Porn-addiction can be better known from other person's direct experiences.

Now, as per the same video of Project Nightfall, I am going to summarize the Porn-addiction for a normal child till the peak of his/her youth life as a form of inner-feelings.

• Too Young to understand (Age-range of addiction is 7-10):
  "It feels good.
  It calms me down.
  I love having it in my life.
  I'm so intrigued and excited by this.
  I am too young to understand what I'm doing!"
  
  
• Too addicted to see the problem (Age-range of addiction is 10-20):
  "I am a teenager now,
  and I'm way too deep into this.
  I can't stop spiraling.
  I tried so many times, but nothing helps,
  and everyday I dig deeper into desires I never even knew existed within me"
  
  
• Living the abnormal (Age-range of addiction is 20-30):
  "I can't quit anymore,
  but why should I?
  Porn is now a part of me.
  And they are not enough, anymore!
  Everyday, I need to see more, darker, crazier, dirtier,
  Perhaps more edgy and immoral is what can fill this hole?"

Let me add two simple flow charts for your convenience in realizing the potential harms of porn.
First one:-
When you feel the urge from any type of sexual temptation, you browse the internet for watching porn.
During watching them, you release enormous amount of dopamine, giving you an unwavering intensity of pleasure & making the upcoming temptations even stronger.
After a course of repeatedly watching the same level of vanilla porn, due to that dopamine rush becoming regular, you feel the necessity to consume more extreme categories of porn in order that you could feel the same amount of pleasure you used to feel at the first place.
As a consequence of watching more extreme, disturbing, dirty but unrealistic erotic imageries, you will become totally desensitized to the real world's sex relationships.
So, you would also want to apply those distorted sexual behaviors, literally turning you into a corrupted monster.

Second one:-
You browse and watch porn.
You consume more similar erotic contents from the same site.
Porn sites get monetized because of your consumption activity.
Producers of Porn considers you as their supporter.
They unethically import more women from home & abroad.
Force them to perform in front of cameras.
Producing more diverse porn videos.
You also consume all those new contents.
Monetizing the site further.
Ultimately, you become the REASON why the producers continue to illegally import new young women (who are totally helpless & innocent) to forcibly create harmful pornography.

Real sex education will teach you these things; as I enlisted in the following points.

• Modesty & Decency: A healthy sexual relationship is impossible in the absence of proper Moral Decency inside the mind of a person. Furthermore, maintaining proper modesty allows the bond of relationship to become stronger.
  
  
• Love & Respect: In this degenerated world, sadly, the pure concept of Love is mixed with the term, 'Sex'. The current generation thinks, if you love a random/stranger woman, that means you already screwed her.
  These Youngsters lack Love with Respect by a great extent. Because, they tend to love others behind the motive of gaining personal advantages. When such advantage is fulfilled, they do not delay breaking the relation up.
  
  
• Fornication is Forbidden: If someone tells you that the experience of having sex via conducting Fornication is amazing, either he is telling a mere lie or he is chronically suffering from Hypersexuality. Fornication only results in facing severe form of depression, self-doubt and loss of confidence.
  
  
• Blocking Distorted Sex-Acts and Sex-perversions: The good thing behind real sex education is, it can identify all the distorted forms of Sexual Activities. It can resist the STD issues through forbidding those identified sex perversions.
  
  
• Pornography is the Enemy of Sex: Pornography consumption easily kills the sympathetic love between a couple. Because, a porn addict male/female quickly loses interest on having real sex with his/her partner. That's why, for fulfilling the need of satisfying sexual enthusiasm, they tend to watch more extreme Porn videos.
  And Porn was, is, & will be only used for gaining ecstasy feeling on watching totally unrealistic and fictional sex contents. There is a harsh reality about Porn Industry. Which is, the industry itself is hazardously corrupted, predatory on young women, performance based on consuming drugs and earns enormous amount of monetary revenue from victimized people. 
  More often, some extreme performance causes men/women to completely lose their normal genital functions. As a result, they end up consuming heavy drugs at late night for temporarily escaping the reality, although some of them end up suiciding.
  
  
• Lack of Learning source: You can seldom get reliable information regarding sex from any formal platform, either online or offline. Even the Education System is teaching sex in some distorted and abnormal ways; as you knew it from the blog, Matriculative Matrix; if not then go and read that but, only after completing to read the rest of this blog.
  Learning these things from the parents will undoubtedly be reliable. But unfortunately, most of them will totally ignore to do it because of feeling super shy to discuss about these sexual concepts with their own children.

Now if you're curious enough then command ChatGPT to disclose major types of Pornographic contents. I want to share a last fact; the person who chronically/impulsively watches porn suffers from an unofficial Paraphilia called Pictophilia.

Last of all, in a conclusion, be a truly GENUINE person.
Be a man who is filled with self-esteem and driven with motivation as well as ambitions.
Be a man who is loved by his life-partner and purely respected to her. 
Be a man who is pure enough to enlighten the society with the guidance to an ultimate form of success, being a complete ideal human.
And be a man who experiences the taste of a non-porn-induced life, thus stays grateful for every single day.