A point of time fortunately comes in your life where you actually realize that your life must needs to be radically changed for the better. You start to import a massive level of improvements in your regular lifestyle as a result of realizing so. But a very common scenario that every self-developer face; you would face it too.
That is the moment when almost every single person around you (your friends, peers, classmates, neighbors, relatives and even the family) goes against such realization of yours. They would provoke, troll, make fun, insult, discourage, accuse, demotivate, and hate you. They would also behave with you as if you're a sole enemy of them. And it is pretty normal case. Some of them will tell you, "Man, why are you doing this? Are you considering yourself as a SUPERMAN?", some will say, "Uh! Such an idiot who is avoiding to enjoy his life out of desires.", some might even utter, "You are certainly a psychopath. Fearing to enjoy these entertainments. Get lost, you asshole!" and even many disgusting things (which are more brutal than these ones) many people would say. But hold on to your purpose, never ever listen to their igniting whispers at any cost. No matter how much hurting they may sound like. Otherwise, no radical change will occur in your life.
If the mental firmness & strength of your mind isn't strong enough, then you will gradually start to lose in the long run you wished to make come true. Going to depression will result in relapsing back into the old toxic life. You certainly don't want that thing to happen, do you? Accepting defeat only from hearing intoxicated languages by them won't develop you towards the real masculinity.
Because, this is the perfect time of proving yourself as the FITTEST one in this grand game of survival. It obviously & undoubtedly requires a very high amount of mental stability which can only be yielded by the real men and how much high pressure giving stress you can actually take through facing them out right in front of you like a LION instead of hiding in the dark like a PATHETIC coward silly boy. This is the time of being BRAVE, POWERFUL, AGGRESSIVE, VENGOUS and a real MASCULINE man. Seneca once said, "He who is brave is free.". Without this, you can never be as much high valuable as steel. As you can see, how the simple iron needs to be HEATED up under the deepest and the darkest of fire as well as the higher and stronger forms of pressure in order that it could turn into as hard as steel. Same case applies in the long run of developing as a man as well.
Look, read it closely, majority of people nowadays are already gone astray by distracting themselves from their true ambitions, goals, and purposes of life through continuously consuming garbage entertainment contents which are available all over the internet as you already know it clearly. So, they couldn’t become anything more than some zombies. This generation already became victim to the zombie apocalypse where the virus involved in this zombie-necrosis is of various forms. Such as; porn, nudity, partial sexuality, slang & swear, mukbang, etc. This virus is so contagious that it transfers from one person to another through the pixelated displays. It is a matter of great gratitude that you are the only person here who is strong & fit enough to ready to go AGAINST the dangerous flow of these innumerable mindless zombies. In this way, you're not only turning into a One-Man Army warrior, but also proving the real power of your Masculine ancestors thus making them proud on the heavens.
Lastly, remember that no improving progress ever happens without getting out of the comfort zones. Risks & dangers should must have to be taken in order to develop the virtues of a real masculinity as well as to remove the impure vices out of the life.
Therefore, I, in fact, say two E's to take seriously and apply it permanently in the personal lifestyle. EMBRACING & ENJOYING anything that life throws at you.
Embracement:
It means to accept the situation or scenario willingly, happily and enthusiastically with utmost affection. No matter how much negative it might seem at the first place. A quote from a Greek philosopher named Marcus Aurelius will help you to understand this point even better. He said,
"You have power over your mind – not external events. Realize this and you will have strength."
The entire world might go against your view about improving as a better man over time. But still, you should tightly keep that drive constant in the mindset so that you don't fall again into their traps.
Even if you fall somehow, get up.
Fallen down again? Then get that ass up again.
Never ever lose hope nor accept defeat. Keep that war going on.
And due to doing this, you will surely be successful in showing the world about your influential glorious strong motive for struggling to improve as a man after you die.
Even during the lifetime, you would easily gain status and respect from others for such a stronger firmness.
Enjoyment:
it is impossible to keep the journey of the long distance of self-improvement ongoing without the presence of enjoying the struggles deeply. You should not only accept the hard situations with harmony, but also enjoy them as gratefully as possible.
Feel the tightness and fears in your mind in a deeper sense when you find it way too difficult to continue the improvement any longer.
Find out the WHY of your journey whenever you're about to reject or give up the struggles to return back to those intoxicated habits.
Create some self-affirmations by yourself or find that out from Google and believe firmly upon each of them. Such affirmations when given constantly to the mindset, it automatically feels the vibe, the thrill, the power, the confidence, the drive, and the motivation. As a result of this, you can sense out the bursts of joy. Thus you can easily continue to fight against them.
So final words of mine is,
Wake up to the reality
Shake off your fear ones
Grow up the masculinity
Blow off those near ones
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